Life Woman’s grocery list for husband goes viral and sparks conversation about men’s ‘strategic incompetence’ September 15, 2021September 17, 2021 Alia E. Dastagir, USA TODAY Comments Off on Woman’s grocery list for husband goes viral and sparks conversation about men’s ‘strategic incompetence’ "Strategic incompetence" is a tactic of resistance where men pretend they are unable to perform certain tasks so women will do them instead.