Life ‘I felt as if I was dead to her’: The psychological cost of the silent treatment April 7, 2022April 8, 2022 Alia E. Dastagir, USA TODAY Comments Off on ‘I felt as if I was dead to her’: The psychological cost of the silent treatment The silent treatment is a refusal to verbally communicate with another person. When it's part of a pattern of controlling behavior, it can be abuse.